"INTRODUCING YOUR NEXT OBSESSION...."
I've waited a few days since finishing "The Idea of You" to write my review because I wasn't sure what to say. Initially I thought I didn't enjoy the book, however the reality is I stayed up late two nights in a row because I couldn't bare to put it down. I can't fault the style of writing or the way that Lee seamlessly transported you around the world as the romance between Solène and Hayes progressed. The truth is that I found the romance/relationship between Solène and Hayes uncomfortable and I couldn't comprehend in my head, how a middle aged woman could find a boy/man described as having boyish good lucks and swagger to be attractive. The problem is, if these ages and genders were to be reversed I wouldn't have blinked at the concept of an older, divorced man and a younger women. As a society I feel we see a "mum" or a "middle aged woman" as someone who has to be responsible, sensible and ultimately not sexy enough or attractive enough to be with a younger man. A concept that Lee continuously challenges throughout her book in a number of ways. At 27, I personally don't feel I could ever find a boy/man that many years my junior to be attractive, or someone I would be willing to risk the happiness of my daughter for and I feel this is where my uncertainty as to whether I enjoyed reading the story lies. As a reader, I like to immerse myself in the story and regardless of any unrealistic glitz and glam like to truly believe I could be the main character. Sadly, with "The Idea of You" this wasn't possible for me. However, having reflected after finishing the book, I've come to the conclusion that just because I can't see myself as Solène, doesn't mean I didn't enjoy or wouldn't recommend "The Idea of You" to family and friends. "The Idea of You" was thought provoking and challenged societal norms - many reviewers have argued that it isn't a 'romance' but I strongly disagree. If you're looking to read a love story that makes you think and question how we see women in the world then "The Idea of You" is for you!
Currently 99p on Amazon Kindle July 2021
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